How can I get my girlfriend to switch the way she dresses and get her to wear a bigger sizes?

My girl friend isnt so bad looking, but she continues to wear extremely tight clothes. Its ovious she needs a bigger size and the pants she wears make her look like a muffin top and creates a cameltoe. I like her alot. She has a great personality, but she is so fixed on small sizes and clothes so out of stile that I become embarrased to be seen with her. Please someone.....what r my options?How can I get my girlfriend to switch the way she dresses and get her to wear a bigger sizes?
Hmm this is a very sensitive topic to broach with some women so I would consider treading gently!





My girlfriend and I have a very open, blunt relationship where she would just come out and say ';holy sh*t you look fat in that!'; in which case I'd generally squeal, take off what I'm wearing and go wear something else and ask her if it looks okay (we're both women btw). I'm not sure if you and your girlfriend have such an understanding, but if you do then go right ahead and tell her that it's too small for her.





If you're not so lucky and have to tread lightly, slowly ease her into it by telling her that you think she's attractive and that you think she has great fashion sense...then say something like ';but I think maybe you should consider a size up? It seems like some of the clothes look a little too skimpy or tight';. Because I personally can't think of a nicer way to say tell her this! Good luck...How can I get my girlfriend to switch the way she dresses and get her to wear a bigger sizes?
You buy some clothing or dresses for her. When she wears, you just tell her how beautiful.
i think your best bet would be to have someone else do it.


other wise she will hate you forever (or always feel insecure)





or you could be like ';your jeans look so tight, isn't that irritating?'; or if you guys are at a point in your relationship where you would ever see her without her pants on you could mention something about the red line indentation things from wearing clothes that are too tight (from the waist band) just be like, ';oh no your pants are trying to kill you!'; jokingly, and rub the area for her to make it feel better.


also you could tell her you don't like her wearing tight clothes because it shows off her body for other people, and it makes you uncomfortable. one of my exes was very particular about what i would wear out because he didn't want everybody else seeing his gf that way.


so a bunch of subtle hints like that will maybe give her the idea that tight clothes are not as great as she thought.





you could also take her to the mall and have a situation set up where someone says something about her muffin top and camel toe. then you could be like (think about it for a minute before you say it) ';well your pants do look kind of tight...';





or you could send me a link to her myspace or facebook and i will message her saying i was looking through one of her friends pics and she was in them and i noticed that her style is hideous and unflattering and i just wanted to let her know so she could change it! haha. im a total stranger so its fine if she hates me!





idk. good luck.
if you have a common female friend, let her know first so she can convey the same to her.
maybe you could buy her some clothes in larger sizes and tell her she looks nice to encourage her.
I would tell her what you just told us, but leave out the ''embarrassed to be seen with her'' part.
buy her a bigger size in dress or whatever, put it on her bed with a note telling her you're taking her out to dinner and want her to wear that.





then take her out and tell her you think she looks sexy in what you bought her, that she should dress like that more often- makes you look romantic and she should get the message.





if not, tell her you don't like the way other guys look at her when she wears skin-tight clothing and that you'd appreciate it if she wore bigger sizes so that you feel special being the only one who sees her beautiful body.
don't get her offended by telling her she's fat. just tell her that she will look better if she will wear bigger clothes. just a little bigger.. wearing smaller sizes of clothes doesn't always mean you're fat.
I agree with Sophie. That way she won't be too offended and then you tell her that she looks good. Or you could possibly try getting her to work out with you or something? Don't come out and tell her she is fat or that she needs to wear bigger clothes. Just be sneaky about it (:
tell her she's fat
You obviously can't be like ';hey babe, you're fat and need to wear bigger clothes 'cause you're bulging and it's embarassing'; ...because that would upset her and make you sound like a jerk.


I uh... really don't know what you could do about it without hurting her feelings. Good luck...
dont listen to STB shes not fatt and dont u dare say that...just let her gf no and then have them confront her dont confront her or ur asking for hell