Monday, August 16, 2010

How do i handle this situation... always with other girls?

i really love my boyfriend... but i've been having some serious problems with some of his behavior lately. i've been really nice and lenient about it for the past two months, but now its starting to get really old. and, i've been talking to some of my best friends who don't think that this is right. here is my list of his offenses...





•He talks about all the girls he’s hooked up with/ wants to hook up with all the time


•He goes out with another girl about once a week or brings one back to his room


•I practically have to drag time out of him… this weekend he only spent time with me because he felt bad because I wasn’t feeling well. Then when our movie was over he just left and said, “ok we hung out like you wanted. Love you. Bye.”


•He spends our date time texting other girls a lot younger than him… that he then takes out later.


•He expects me to be ok with it all





i need advice on what i can say that he will understand and not be mad... please?How do i handle this situation... always with other girls?
This guy is a jerk and he'll never understand anything. Get rid of him. He does not love you. Find a boy who is good to you. Believe me, you'll be better off and happy that you did!!How do i handle this situation... always with other girls?
I think you should just break up with him. It sickens me that this guy talks about ';hooking up'; at all.
if i were you i would be pissed off. you have a right ot be mad. if hes your boyfriend then he shouldn't be doing anything with other girls.
Find a new boy friend.
So your boyfriend is cheating on you. Lovely. You need to confront him straight up. I think you should dump him, to be honest. But no girl wants to hear that. He talks about wanting to hook up with other girls?? Ummm, yeah that is unnacceptable. Seriously, you probably deserve wayyyy better.
You don't need this boy, so why put up with this? This is no kind of life for you to live.So let him go.
Slap him, dump him, than drop kick him to mars. He won't understand, but that's only because the only language he understands is ';asshole';
Leave him. IDK how u have been putting up with his **** all this time! totally not worth it! uggh. men are dogs!
This is where the saying ';On to the next one'; applies.


What a JERK.
HES USING U!!! DUMP HIM!!! FIND THE RIGHT GUY!!!
i would dump him what a jerk
girl if you accept this kind of thing to happen then maybe you deserve it... don't let your boyfriend run all over you sit down with him and tell him i how you feel you keep letting him do this he will not stop if that doesn't work then give him the silent treatment and see what he does girl you have to take action or you will be replaced soon good luck
DUMP HIM.
';i really love my boyfriend';.... but hes a jerk so dump him and move on. my goodness, why do girls continuosly insist on being treated like garbage?? move on and find a guy who will treat you like the person that you are
Awh, well I understand that you do not want to leave him because you love him, but if I were you, I would not take that from a guy. Some guys just do not understand what relationships are supposed to be about, and don't take them as seriously as girls do (not all guys though). You deserve someone who will love you back and spend time with you because he WANTS too, not because he has too, and someone who will not talk to other girls that way because he only loves YOU and only has feelings for you. Anyways, it might just be because he hasnt matured enough yet, that he still isnt ready to fully commit, and nothing you do or say will be able to change that Im afraid. If he really does care for you, he will listen to your concerns, and do anything he can to make you happy.


Talk to him about it nicely, maybe he will understand. If not, you dont need someone like that, no girl deserves that.
you have to dump this guy. he is not for you, and he doesn't deserve you.





if you really dont want to let him go... go up to him and say, ';listen, you've been ignoring me. going out with other girls. and talking about hooking up with others girls . if you dont pick up your act right now. i am walking out of here. and i dont care how much you say you love me.';





if he tells you he doesn't care if you go or not. then you have to go because obviously he doesn't care about you. obviously he is cheating on you. i suggest just dumping this guy right now.
Have you talked to him about it? You should.


If you have %26amp; this continues then ITS GAME! Don't play with him.


It looks like game anyway... Unless you're into open relationships?

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