My friend is obsessed with this guy...?

My friend is a freshman and she's got this HUGE crush on a sophomore. He would had a girlfriend at the time, but continued to text her telling her all of these ';things'; (dirty things) he wanted to do with her. I kept my ears open during my math class and found out that he was doing the same thing with another girl who was his age. The two of them (him and the girl his age) ended up having sex all while he was dating his girlfriend. When his girlfriend found out, they broke up and he stopped texting my friend saying stuff like, ';I want to change';, ';I want to be a better man';, and that kind of stuff. That crap only lasted like a week and he was back to normal talking to my friend the same way and the girl he had sex with as well. She's still obsessed with him and I don't want to see her get hurt. How can I help her without hurting her feelings? All of my friends and I try to say something to her but it's like she doesn't understand. What should I do?My friend is obsessed with this guy...?
There is nothing you can do... Just be there for her when he really hurts her feelings... Thats a real friend... because telling her that he is not good is not going to work.... when a girl really loves/likes someone they tend to not help how they feel..








So just be there for her and comfort her when she gets hurt.... Or she may not get hurt... either way.... Just continue to be her friend....My friend is obsessed with this guy...?
Sit her down and explain to her the situation without her interrupting. Tell her you care about her and you don't want to see her get hurt from some stupid guy. Good luck!
It's obvious that he's not the greatest guy around. If she's obssesed with him then she may not be able to see him for what he really is, but just be patient with her and encourage her to move on and that she's a better person than he is and that he doesn't deserve her.So just keep reminding her of the things she's looking for in a guy, and that she deserves more than what that guy has to offer
show her that you're there for her.


she should trust you and your opinions about him; as a friend, she should listen to what you have to say [to keep her from getting hurt].


sometimes, you need to let her make her own mistakes and she'll see that you were right the whole time and she'll go to you and find care in your heart for her.. she'll trust you.
You should tell your friend the truth. It's her choice whether she believes you or not. If she does get hurt, the best you can do is comfort her and remind her that you warned her about the guy. But she could think you are trying to rub it in her face that she was wrong. The most important thing you can do, as her friend, is be there for her. To remind her what is important, what ever. Just don't let her get so obsessed that she ends up like the other girl, having sex with him.
Stop talking to her and start talking to him. Say ';You will be sorry if you f**k with my friend anymore so back off d-bag';


I have a friend JUST like this and nothing will get through to her. Nothing. So i guess she will have to learn it the hard way if you don't step in with the guy.
just tell her that you care about her, and that you would hate to see her get hurt and as a friend you feel that the right think to do is to talk to her and let her know what was going on.
Well, I am not completely sure, but tell her about the other girl. If this doesn't turn her off, you can always try telling her about his commitment issues, and even make up stuff about him to turn her off, as long as it's believable. If you are that concerned, try introducing her to other guys and stuff like that. Hope all goes well. :D
go for a walk with her then tell her hes bad for her boys come and go but you dont want to be tied down to an arrsehole who only wants sex
tell her and kick his ***