If i want to break up with a girl, but i don't want to completely lose her, how do i do it?

I thought I loved her.


But things have gotten worse. I thought she was having my baby, but i found out she wasn't mine. But i fell in love with the baby. And i want to end the relationship without ruining our friendship because i'm scared I'll never get to see the baby. Does anybody have any advice? :(If i want to break up with a girl, but i don't want to completely lose her, how do i do it?
dont get involved with the kid unless you intend on sticking to the mother till the kid is in college. any involvement with the kid is just going to confuse the poor kid and things are unstable enough as it is.If i want to break up with a girl, but i don't want to completely lose her, how do i do it?
first off you cant stay with her for they baby its not healthy for anyone and second if you truley dont want to be with her be honest with her and hope for the best but if you still might love her seek counsiling but be very honest thats the only thing you can do
You just said it! The baby was not yours meaning that she cheated on you; during the relationship. Move on and know that the babies real father will be in her life. You will be going through drama from here on out! If you are so in love with the baby, that is not a reason to continue the relationship.





Babies will ultimately love who love them. But the mother of that baby is a trip! Go and establish a new relationship and make your own babies! Good luck to you!
It's a precarious situation as is, don't make things worse.