This question is for all girls?

Why do girls always go for the jerks. The saying ';nice guys never get laid'; is true, or even get the girl. The girl i like recently broke up with her jerk/abusive boyfriend and we spent a lot of time together and flirted. We talked for an hour and she said they were definitely done. Then the next day she's back with him after being off for two weeks. Why do girls go with the guy that they know will abuse them, and not with the people who care for them, and just want them to be happy?





This is why i dont get how girls think. Please respond why she did this, or why girls in general tend to do this.This question is for all girls?
I tend to lean towards nicer guys, but most of my friends go for the guys that are more ';fun';. The guys that are jerks and treat them poorly have a tendency to give them a ';thrill';. But, I'm pretty sure that, as they mature, they'll want some maturity and someone who can maintain a family c;This question is for all girls?
they think they can reform them. trust me, this is every guys problem (cept for the dbags)
They are under the guy's control. I think you should talk to her again. It isn't healthy. But don't blame her, she could be afraid of him and that's why she's with him.
because i'm so much better than you, so your out of my league
Uh, they don't, actually. Some do; apparently, the ones you notice.





But my friend is like this, and I've asked her. She replied that she hopes the guy is nice to her but is rude to everyone else.





It makes them feel special.





Hope this explains.
Well did you ever stop to think that maybe you're going for the wrong girl? She sounds like a 'cock-tease' therefore likes the bad boy probably, but will lead everyone else on. Basically she just wasn't that into you, but wanted reassurance while she alone.


Maybe go for someone you notice is nice, shy possibly. Although make sure you actually like them and are not just lonely. Ha, I was shy in school and liked someone but was too lame to let them know. [It took till after grad to even attempt anything, which turned out epic anyway :] So maybe there's already someone there for you, you just have to notice!