How do I get over this break up and pain?

I dated this guy for about a year. We had problems in the beginning after I caught him in a few lies about another woman, which he STILL denies that there was something going on. I tried to let it go, trust him, and we ended up being together a few more months after that. However, I feel like I couldn't trust him. It wasn't that he did something again after, but I felt like he always said the right things to me. He would always say the sweetest things. The other day, I found messages between that girl and him on facebook, the girl that he had lied to me about. I told him a few days ago that I couldn't do this anymore and that it was really over. How do I get over this pain? I know I let him go, but I still love him nonetheless.





it's been only a few days since i've broken up with him, and now i hear he's really with that girl he lied to me about. to me he acted all sweet/genuine/like i was the only girl/always said the right things like i was the only one, and he's perfectly fine, not hurt at all with that girl.How do I get over this break up and pain?
Sometimes life teaches us the right things in a much harder way. I have been goin thru a break up too since last 4 months n i can understand your condition.But truly you deserve someone much better.So dont think much.


You need to force yourself to stop thinking about him or checking his accounts n stuff.Either ask any of your friends to block FB etc on your computer so that you cannot access it. It takes time to get over all this and its only upto you. Its your will power. If you allow yourself to be hurt you will be hurt. That guy has already taken much of your time dont let him waste any more of it. Join some classes or watch movies or concentrate somewhere else or spend time with friends.Just do not think about him.





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It was very helpful to me.


:-) Every night is followed by a new morning. You will be fine with time. :-)


Take CareHow do I get over this break up and pain?
It's a painful process that only you can do anything about.





One day at a a time the pain will recede and become easier to bear.





You certainly seem better off without him in my humble opinion.





I wish you the best of luck.
You need to get over the betrayal and take comfort in the fact that not only have you had a narrow escape but he will be cheating on his new girlfriend too..It is only time you need to heal.............