Is it wrong to be sexually attracted to minors if you don't act on those feelings? I'm 18 and I'm attracted to girls as young as 7, and a therapist told me this type of thinking is wrong because it's a disease. I don't get how it could be wrong if I'm not doing anything with them, or hurting anybody? Not to mention I'm attracted to older girls too, some as old as 30-something, so it's not like I have a problem dating girls of the legal age.
So is it wrong to be sexually attracted to minors even if you don't act on those feelings, and why?
And please no ';Because it's sick!'; answers, I've heard that too many times without an explanation.Is it wrong to be sexually attracted to minors, if you don't act on those feelings?
I don't think it's inherently wrong, but modern society has trained itself to protect its constituents, especially those who lack the means to do so. Children are an example of that. Because they can't protect themselves--physically and mentally--laws and taboos and political correctness were developed to determine what is ';right'; and ';wrong.'; To me, it's generally ';wrong'; if it harms others; as long as you don't act on your attraction, I don't see anything wrong with your personal thing. I'd keep it to yourself when you're out in public, though. You never know who you might offend.Is it wrong to be sexually attracted to minors, if you don't act on those feelings?
yes it's sick it's not normal you perv
i can see where some adults (18+) guys come off on finding teenage girls attractive . they have boobs and are developed like women but there is a limit. girls age 7 are far to young. they dont look like women at all. they have no boobs or butt like women. girls that are still small children are exactly that. children. sounds to me like you started finding girls attractive when you were around 7 and now your 18 but mentally you never really grew out of finding little girls attractive.you just got to train your brain to understand that
Yes, because it indicates a lack of mental development, perhaps a lack of proper growth type hormones during puberty. Since you're 18, it's unlikely by now to be a late development issue. If you have a therapist you can speak with whom you trust, you might want to see if there are any type of hormones (or something like that) that you can take that would help; not just medication -- it sounds as if your brain is missing something. Please don't take offence at that, as I'm not saying it to be mean, but as a possible explanation. Another idea is that perhaps instead of absentee hormones from when you went through puberty, there is a misfiring of synapses in your brain - particularly since you said you are also attracted to age-appropriate women.
A therapist who is a psychiatrist (as a opposed to a psychologist) would be able to prescribe medical/prescription help.
Even though you may not physically act on it now, that doesn't mean you wouldn't in the future - I'm not saying anything about *you* specifically, just that I know that this does happen. You also put yourself at risk for being accused of being a pedophile (and registered as a sex offender) - whether you did anything physical or just showed ';indecent material'; to girls under the legal age of consent (anyone under age 18). A child wouldn't have to be the accuser - a parent, caregiver, or friend of the child could report you.
Best of luck to you.
U have or rather are a pedifile, get help fast, seven, is still a baby, u could get killed over thinking like cuzz sooner than later u will act on it. seek help, yes it is a sin to think the way u do god, u just really made me sick
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Maybe there is a cure to homosexuality? Was I never gay?
Ok. Let me just start off by saying that I don't have a problem with being gay at all. I have never denied myself about any part of me.
I thought for YEARS that I was gay ... I identified myself as a homosexual. I had never EVER been attracted to a woman ... I would only watch gay porn and get off on it. I would never want to have sex with a woman ... as I'm sure many of you wouldn't either. I was always supportive of the community and never ashamed of myself. I wouldn't 'pray the gay away' or anything, as many put it. However, I met a year ago a beautiful girl who treated me with kindness and respect like any other person. I can say that I DID fall in love with her ... I can't imagine my life without her. After a year together, we had sex and we had such strong feelings for each other that I was able to be as excited as if I were with a man. I even saw myself having a future with this girl. She is everything I have ever wanted and everything that my past relationships with men didn't offer.
I am 100% sure that all will say that I am really bisexual, but the thing is - I never wanted to have sex with a woman ever or had any desire for a relationship with one. Confusing, I know? Is this just a stage and will I sooner or later want a man?
Just wanted to get your thoughts on this ... and to those who are homosexuals but have never dated or had sex with a woman - how do you know for sure? Have you been with a woman before?Maybe there is a cure to homosexuality? Was I never gay?
I honestly think you may be straight. I'm sorry, but I have had sex with men and women and never liked having sex with a woman. Because I was born gay. I could be wrong about you tho sweetie.
Good LuckMaybe there is a cure to homosexuality? Was I never gay?
Were you ever gay ...
Not necessarily in its entirety. To be precise, as aforementioned you're bisexual. Even though you didn't exactly find a favorance to women sexually, you eventually did, didn't you? That, along with your sexual fantasies with men, and that's what comes up; bi.
I wouldn't worry it away though. You still have many years to experiment. Best to you two =)
Renka
i identify myself as a lesbian, because women are my preference, always have been, maybe always will be. i have been with guys before, and that's how i know i'm not really into it. however, i'm not completely closed to the idea of being with a man. i've been with a bunch of girls but i've only had about 3 serious relationships with girls, and one with a guy, and i could tell you right now, that i was sooo in love with him. i believe that it was because of who he was inside, not outside. he was such a good person and i liked everything about him. it's about the connection that you make emotionally, not physically. personality has a lot to do with it, i think. like you said, you found with her a relationship that offered you things that you didn't find with men. it's not about a person's sex, but about who they are and how the two of you are compatible. it's complicated and confusing, and one word (f.e gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender) should hardly be enough to describe us.
what can I say,life is really random.you think you can plan,well........
I just think your mind is just taking a vacation like our body does.
but vacation is not life.you will come back.
So...are you telling me you have missed all the stories--both on here and elsewhere--that are almost exactly like this, except it's people who have ';always'; been straight and then, bam, they like someone of their sex? Why couldn't the same thing happen to gays and lesbians? It can and it does.
I mean...I don't know how old you are, but a lot of younger people go through this because they are at the age of discovering sexuality in general...and more and more older people are going through this because of the increased visibility of homosexuality and the increased societal acceptance of living an openly homosexual lifestyle. Either way, sexuality is not as easy to understand or pin down as a lot of people seem to think it is, and it's not as stagnant as a lot of people seem to think it is. It's not as obvious to some the day they're born as it is to some other people. There are also not just four or five sexual orientations, i.e. the ones people talk about all the time. All of these things are really why you're confused. If you suddenly find yourself attracted to a woman, it doesn't mean that you're suddenly straight or that you never truly liked men. I've been through trying to pin everything down, and all I can tell you is that no one can tell you what's going to happen with your sexual orientation. It takes time and your going out and having experiences before you get answers, and even then...you're always having new experiences and meeting new people.
As of right now, I ';know'; because I don't want to date or have sex with men but I do want these things with women--simple as that. I get wigged out by men in pretty much every way, from the implication that d1ck would ';solve'; lesbians to their personalities. Can I say with certainty that won't change? No. No one really can, though I feel it won't change and so do a lot of other lesbians. Either way, when things like what you described with that woman come up, you just have to go with the flow to discover who you are.
Sounds you have always been bisexual, but you had lean on one direction and now you are towards the opposite direction. Anyway if in your future u feel desire for a man, then go for it.
Unfortunately, lots of gay men have sex with women as part of self-cures. Worked for you. Doesn't seem to work for them. Gays and lesbians have been told forever that all they need is to meet the right person of the opposite sex and all will be fine. Lesbians in particular are subject to the popular story that all they need is a good lay and off they'll go to heterosexuality. The ';cure'; is what here again? Heterosexual dating and better relationships with the opposite sex? Gee, I never tried that.
But to be honest though, ';I was able to be as excited as as if she were a man'; is not how heterosexuals experience sex. You had bad relationships with men, watched porn and make love to your woman as if she were a man because she gives you the emotional commitment that porn and the men you were having sex with didn't give you. Good for you. I get that. But where's the cure?
I thought for YEARS that I was gay ... I identified myself as a homosexual. I had never EVER been attracted to a woman ... I would only watch gay porn and get off on it. I would never want to have sex with a woman ... as I'm sure many of you wouldn't either. I was always supportive of the community and never ashamed of myself. I wouldn't 'pray the gay away' or anything, as many put it. However, I met a year ago a beautiful girl who treated me with kindness and respect like any other person. I can say that I DID fall in love with her ... I can't imagine my life without her. After a year together, we had sex and we had such strong feelings for each other that I was able to be as excited as if I were with a man. I even saw myself having a future with this girl. She is everything I have ever wanted and everything that my past relationships with men didn't offer.
I am 100% sure that all will say that I am really bisexual, but the thing is - I never wanted to have sex with a woman ever or had any desire for a relationship with one. Confusing, I know? Is this just a stage and will I sooner or later want a man?
Just wanted to get your thoughts on this ... and to those who are homosexuals but have never dated or had sex with a woman - how do you know for sure? Have you been with a woman before?Maybe there is a cure to homosexuality? Was I never gay?
I honestly think you may be straight. I'm sorry, but I have had sex with men and women and never liked having sex with a woman. Because I was born gay. I could be wrong about you tho sweetie.
Good LuckMaybe there is a cure to homosexuality? Was I never gay?
Were you ever gay ...
Not necessarily in its entirety. To be precise, as aforementioned you're bisexual. Even though you didn't exactly find a favorance to women sexually, you eventually did, didn't you? That, along with your sexual fantasies with men, and that's what comes up; bi.
I wouldn't worry it away though. You still have many years to experiment. Best to you two =)
Renka
i identify myself as a lesbian, because women are my preference, always have been, maybe always will be. i have been with guys before, and that's how i know i'm not really into it. however, i'm not completely closed to the idea of being with a man. i've been with a bunch of girls but i've only had about 3 serious relationships with girls, and one with a guy, and i could tell you right now, that i was sooo in love with him. i believe that it was because of who he was inside, not outside. he was such a good person and i liked everything about him. it's about the connection that you make emotionally, not physically. personality has a lot to do with it, i think. like you said, you found with her a relationship that offered you things that you didn't find with men. it's not about a person's sex, but about who they are and how the two of you are compatible. it's complicated and confusing, and one word (f.e gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender) should hardly be enough to describe us.
what can I say,life is really random.you think you can plan,well........
I just think your mind is just taking a vacation like our body does.
but vacation is not life.you will come back.
So...are you telling me you have missed all the stories--both on here and elsewhere--that are almost exactly like this, except it's people who have ';always'; been straight and then, bam, they like someone of their sex? Why couldn't the same thing happen to gays and lesbians? It can and it does.
I mean...I don't know how old you are, but a lot of younger people go through this because they are at the age of discovering sexuality in general...and more and more older people are going through this because of the increased visibility of homosexuality and the increased societal acceptance of living an openly homosexual lifestyle. Either way, sexuality is not as easy to understand or pin down as a lot of people seem to think it is, and it's not as stagnant as a lot of people seem to think it is. It's not as obvious to some the day they're born as it is to some other people. There are also not just four or five sexual orientations, i.e. the ones people talk about all the time. All of these things are really why you're confused. If you suddenly find yourself attracted to a woman, it doesn't mean that you're suddenly straight or that you never truly liked men. I've been through trying to pin everything down, and all I can tell you is that no one can tell you what's going to happen with your sexual orientation. It takes time and your going out and having experiences before you get answers, and even then...you're always having new experiences and meeting new people.
As of right now, I ';know'; because I don't want to date or have sex with men but I do want these things with women--simple as that. I get wigged out by men in pretty much every way, from the implication that d1ck would ';solve'; lesbians to their personalities. Can I say with certainty that won't change? No. No one really can, though I feel it won't change and so do a lot of other lesbians. Either way, when things like what you described with that woman come up, you just have to go with the flow to discover who you are.
Sounds you have always been bisexual, but you had lean on one direction and now you are towards the opposite direction. Anyway if in your future u feel desire for a man, then go for it.
Unfortunately, lots of gay men have sex with women as part of self-cures. Worked for you. Doesn't seem to work for them. Gays and lesbians have been told forever that all they need is to meet the right person of the opposite sex and all will be fine. Lesbians in particular are subject to the popular story that all they need is a good lay and off they'll go to heterosexuality. The ';cure'; is what here again? Heterosexual dating and better relationships with the opposite sex? Gee, I never tried that.
But to be honest though, ';I was able to be as excited as as if she were a man'; is not how heterosexuals experience sex. You had bad relationships with men, watched porn and make love to your woman as if she were a man because she gives you the emotional commitment that porn and the men you were having sex with didn't give you. Good for you. I get that. But where's the cure?
How do I get this boy to like me?
hi. i'm aimee. i'm 12 years old. i don't fancy this boy. i love him. i guess i already know what you're thinking, either: ';oh shes just a little kid, who doesn't know anything about love, or feelings.';, or something along the lines. but i really do. i've thought i loved a lot of boys, but never have i ever actually got together with them, as a relationship. and they never would, anyway. i'm ugly, obese, (i weigh 10-11 stone) and very lazy. i don't have a nice house, a car, and i walk to school by my self. when i'm walking, the boys on their bikes usually shout, ';larry!'; and it hurts my feelings. i wish someone could actually understand me.
anyway, his name is william, but hes normally just a toy to play with when the naughty girls in class are bored and want to mess about with him. my ex best friend went out with him, when i fancied him, and he was nasty to me. i felt really left out and upset, especially when they kissed (on the lips), held hands, and hugged. i've never been able to do any of that, but all of the popular girls that do, never take it for granted.
sometimes, he's nice to me. and sometimes, i start to think that maybe, he kind of liked me too, but then i remember how ugly, overweight, and i bite my skin on my fingers, who would want to hold hands with that?
i wish i was pretty, slim, and sort of popular. i would do anything. when i go on a diet, i just gain weight again. i'm a different person on the computer. its the only way i can really tell anyone, the only place where i have some sort of confidence. but i'm not good enough for him. i love him. please understand, please no mean comments. please, please, please help. :(How do I get this boy to like me?
Wow hun, I know exactly what your going through. When I was a young teenager I was overweight, shy, and never had a boyfriend or anything. My best advice is don't let what people say get to you. Boys would tease me all the time about my weight. What you have to do is dedicate yourself. If you truly want to get thinner or any of those things, then it will happen. I started working out and lost 30 pounds. :) that just gave me the confidence that I needed, I finally got out of my shell and started talking to everyone, even guys. What you really need is to be confident!! That is what every guy likes, and that is the truth! BE CONFIDENT!! I was shy and never talked to anyone, but once I started, I got a ton of friends..and now I'm even dating the captain of the football team :) ..And about your weight, running is the best thing everrrr..I know I know, I hated it with a passion too, but after about 2 weeks I loved it because of the results that I was getting. You really have to dedicate yourself to it though, Try to run a mile everyday, without excuses like 'I'm tired' or 'Its too late'. Suck it up and do it and you'll see results in no time :) Good luckHow do I get this boy to like me?
Well, i guess you should just start to hang around him more, and try to flirt with him. drop your pencil in class, around him. When he gives it to you, stare into eachothers eyes, and let him see the inside beauty of you..
Writer admits to being 12 years old.
anyway, his name is william, but hes normally just a toy to play with when the naughty girls in class are bored and want to mess about with him. my ex best friend went out with him, when i fancied him, and he was nasty to me. i felt really left out and upset, especially when they kissed (on the lips), held hands, and hugged. i've never been able to do any of that, but all of the popular girls that do, never take it for granted.
sometimes, he's nice to me. and sometimes, i start to think that maybe, he kind of liked me too, but then i remember how ugly, overweight, and i bite my skin on my fingers, who would want to hold hands with that?
i wish i was pretty, slim, and sort of popular. i would do anything. when i go on a diet, i just gain weight again. i'm a different person on the computer. its the only way i can really tell anyone, the only place where i have some sort of confidence. but i'm not good enough for him. i love him. please understand, please no mean comments. please, please, please help. :(How do I get this boy to like me?
Wow hun, I know exactly what your going through. When I was a young teenager I was overweight, shy, and never had a boyfriend or anything. My best advice is don't let what people say get to you. Boys would tease me all the time about my weight. What you have to do is dedicate yourself. If you truly want to get thinner or any of those things, then it will happen. I started working out and lost 30 pounds. :) that just gave me the confidence that I needed, I finally got out of my shell and started talking to everyone, even guys. What you really need is to be confident!! That is what every guy likes, and that is the truth! BE CONFIDENT!! I was shy and never talked to anyone, but once I started, I got a ton of friends..and now I'm even dating the captain of the football team :) ..And about your weight, running is the best thing everrrr..I know I know, I hated it with a passion too, but after about 2 weeks I loved it because of the results that I was getting. You really have to dedicate yourself to it though, Try to run a mile everyday, without excuses like 'I'm tired' or 'Its too late'. Suck it up and do it and you'll see results in no time :) Good luckHow do I get this boy to like me?
Well, i guess you should just start to hang around him more, and try to flirt with him. drop your pencil in class, around him. When he gives it to you, stare into eachothers eyes, and let him see the inside beauty of you..
Writer admits to being 12 years old.
How to get a girl in bed fast? girls answers only?
there is this realy hot girl tht i know and i wanna have sex with her any advice on how to get her in bed?How to get a girl in bed fast? girls answers only?
Be Johnny Depp...
Be Johnny Depp...
How accurate do fictional books have to be?
I'm only 16, but I love to write.
My goal in the future is to become a published author.
I was just wondering, how accurate do fictional books have to be?
I'm currently writing a book about a girl who has Glioblastoma multiforme.
I know that is has to be believable, I've done lots of research on the disease and I get that THIS book most likely won't even be published.. but I still want to write it as if it is, to get my best writing out.
I guess that my main concern is offending people with Glioblastoma multiforme or people who have lost love ones to the disease. I wouldn't want them to go and sue me or something ;p
So where does that leave me?
If the information I give in a fictional book isn't as accurate as real life can anyone do anything about it?
Can I be sued for it?
I just love to write, and I want to share that with everyone with out offending anyone.
Thanks! :)How accurate do fictional books have to be?
If you are presenting this as a story, even if fictional, about a specif subject matter, to get the reader to suspend disbelief you must be spot on accurate. To achieve this you can A) write about what you know or B) do a ton of research and have your story fact checked by experts. If you are really passionate about the subject matter do your research and have it fact checked by at least two qualified sources--like a reporter would--and then include them in your dedication or acknowledgment page.How accurate do fictional books have to be?
If published as fiction, they don't have to be accurate at all.
If you do not get your facts straight, it might not be published. Should you get it past an editor, you may offend readers and/or receive a lot of negative mail regarding the inaccuracies in your book.
Do your research. Be respectful.
Can you be sued for presenting inaccurate information? Perhaps with defamation. I recommend doing your research and making sure its accurate.
Can you be sued for it? No. Can you offend and upset people who are living (more likely, dying) with your plot device? Absolutely you can.
Unless you have first hand experience of the disease, or access to someone who does who is happy to read your story and discuss its realism, I'd stay well clear. Especially if your plot is going to focus on a miraculous recovery, or on how brave she is to cope with her illness. It's FAR too easy to trivialise things which are awful in real life for the sake of making your character look heroic. It's downright cruel when there are real people out there who don't feel at all heroic about it.
if you've done your research than i wouldn'r imagine you would offend anyone -- philip pullman isn't get sued for his book and he offended an awful lot of people lol
hope this helps, good luck :)
If your writing it like it's realistic, then it should be fairly accurate. If it's about famous people, don't put too much fakeness about them. If it's about about a land where ponies walk on water, you can put whateeeever you wantlosing hair healthy hair
My goal in the future is to become a published author.
I was just wondering, how accurate do fictional books have to be?
I'm currently writing a book about a girl who has Glioblastoma multiforme.
I know that is has to be believable, I've done lots of research on the disease and I get that THIS book most likely won't even be published.. but I still want to write it as if it is, to get my best writing out.
I guess that my main concern is offending people with Glioblastoma multiforme or people who have lost love ones to the disease. I wouldn't want them to go and sue me or something ;p
So where does that leave me?
If the information I give in a fictional book isn't as accurate as real life can anyone do anything about it?
Can I be sued for it?
I just love to write, and I want to share that with everyone with out offending anyone.
Thanks! :)How accurate do fictional books have to be?
If you are presenting this as a story, even if fictional, about a specif subject matter, to get the reader to suspend disbelief you must be spot on accurate. To achieve this you can A) write about what you know or B) do a ton of research and have your story fact checked by experts. If you are really passionate about the subject matter do your research and have it fact checked by at least two qualified sources--like a reporter would--and then include them in your dedication or acknowledgment page.How accurate do fictional books have to be?
If published as fiction, they don't have to be accurate at all.
If you do not get your facts straight, it might not be published. Should you get it past an editor, you may offend readers and/or receive a lot of negative mail regarding the inaccuracies in your book.
Do your research. Be respectful.
Can you be sued for presenting inaccurate information? Perhaps with defamation. I recommend doing your research and making sure its accurate.
Can you be sued for it? No. Can you offend and upset people who are living (more likely, dying) with your plot device? Absolutely you can.
Unless you have first hand experience of the disease, or access to someone who does who is happy to read your story and discuss its realism, I'd stay well clear. Especially if your plot is going to focus on a miraculous recovery, or on how brave she is to cope with her illness. It's FAR too easy to trivialise things which are awful in real life for the sake of making your character look heroic. It's downright cruel when there are real people out there who don't feel at all heroic about it.
if you've done your research than i wouldn'r imagine you would offend anyone -- philip pullman isn't get sued for his book and he offended an awful lot of people lol
hope this helps, good luck :)
If your writing it like it's realistic, then it should be fairly accurate. If it's about famous people, don't put too much fakeness about them. If it's about about a land where ponies walk on water, you can put whateeeever you want
Need help getting a girls number?
Well, I first saw this chick at a party a few months ago, then she recently added me on Face Book a few weeks ago. I recognized her and started talking to her online and it turns out she is best friends with a girl at my school. She is really pretty and kind and I would like her number, making it easier to chat but I don't want to come off as a pain? How can I ask for her number, and hopefully meet up with her one day?Need help getting a girls number?
just have a conversation (on facebook) and then casually say ';hey whats ur number?'; or if u want to be more inconspicuous say ur going through ur phone numbers or something and then pretend to notice u dont have her number or something... she wouldnt c u as a pain.Need help getting a girls number?
Jussst ask her!
trust. the worst she could say is ';NO!'; aha
or you could give her your number so she could call you?
aha
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well when your talking to her or whatever on facebook, be like ';hey im about to get off so do you just wanna text'; believe me i had the same problem but then my friend told me to say (type) that and it worked now im texting her like everyday.
Ask your friend to ask the girl for permission to give you party girls number. If party girl likes you then your friend will hand it over, if not.... go fish
I think that this is going to be a bit easier than you think. What you probably don't realize is that she has already expressed a degree of interest in you. The fact that she added you on Facebook months after you met her means that she remembers you and wants to pursue a relationship with you. Also, you have already created a relationship with her, meaning that you can probably ask her out right now.
I would recommend that you simply ask for her number straight out. She would not mind this, and is probably hoping for it. If you want to be more subtle about it, make plans with her and a few other friends and ask for her number claiming that you will contact her with the details of the hang out.
First I would check that she did not post her phone number on the info tab on her Facebook profile though... ;)
If you need help, you are not worthy of asking for her number.
Her daddy will eat you up alive and spit you out on the sidewalk.
Quit playing u werent at a party. be truthfully the 4h club dnt count. But just be confident in yourself and ask her like this chick above me said the worst she could say is no. then you just pull who's next in line. and it mite help to drop out of band and 4h, just chill bro they just B!+chez
good luck
just have a conversation (on facebook) and then casually say ';hey whats ur number?'; or if u want to be more inconspicuous say ur going through ur phone numbers or something and then pretend to notice u dont have her number or something... she wouldnt c u as a pain.Need help getting a girls number?
Jussst ask her!
trust. the worst she could say is ';NO!'; aha
or you could give her your number so she could call you?
aha
%26lt;3
well when your talking to her or whatever on facebook, be like ';hey im about to get off so do you just wanna text'; believe me i had the same problem but then my friend told me to say (type) that and it worked now im texting her like everyday.
Ask your friend to ask the girl for permission to give you party girls number. If party girl likes you then your friend will hand it over, if not.... go fish
I think that this is going to be a bit easier than you think. What you probably don't realize is that she has already expressed a degree of interest in you. The fact that she added you on Facebook months after you met her means that she remembers you and wants to pursue a relationship with you. Also, you have already created a relationship with her, meaning that you can probably ask her out right now.
I would recommend that you simply ask for her number straight out. She would not mind this, and is probably hoping for it. If you want to be more subtle about it, make plans with her and a few other friends and ask for her number claiming that you will contact her with the details of the hang out.
First I would check that she did not post her phone number on the info tab on her Facebook profile though... ;)
If you need help, you are not worthy of asking for her number.
Her daddy will eat you up alive and spit you out on the sidewalk.
Quit playing u werent at a party. be truthfully the 4h club dnt count. But just be confident in yourself and ask her like this chick above me said the worst she could say is no. then you just pull who's next in line. and it mite help to drop out of band and 4h, just chill bro they just B!+chez
good luck
ATTENTION:Do you think we're meant to be?
ATTENTION:Do you think we're meant to be?
Do you think we're meant to be?
There is this guy that I have been knowing for 10 years. We dated briefly in High school. He is two years older than I am. Anyways, We were always kind of ';touch and go'; meaning we were kind of off and on. We had this strange relationship. He would share things with me like he didnt like kissing anyone but me. Still to this day he says that, and its true because everyone knows he doesnt kiss. So when I was seventeen he got a girl pregnant but the relationship didnt last, me and him had sorta of fell off because I moved to a diffrent town. So to make a long story short, it wasnt long before he was coming to my new house to see me. We never formed a solid ';relationship'; after that because I think we both were a little apprehensive. No matter how many years pass, he always comes back to me. at first I thought it was because he was connected to me sexually but then i dont think that would be enough for a man like him. There are alot of girls that want to be with him but he's sorta guarded. Recently he started dating this new chick and when i asked if he loved her his response was ';she was a logical choice'; he was referring to the time period when I played alot of games and put off seeing him because I was always overwhelmed by what I felt for him..as a young girl I didnt know how to handle those feelings. So one day we were sitting in the car and there
was a shooting star. Everytime I saw ok he's with her im completely moving on, someone tells me tahthey saw him or I see his car somewhere. I asked God for a sign one day as to what to do and then I saw his car parked across the way from my house, he has friends that live there. But he hasnt contacted me. Maybe I should reach out to him because I did play games in the past and he probably feels like what's the use? Please give advice.ATTENTION:Do you think we're meant to be?
ATTENTION: your question was too long and I didn't read it.ATTENTION:Do you think we're meant to be?
Well if you guys really love each other forever and don't fight you guys are meant to be
Do you think we're meant to be?
There is this guy that I have been knowing for 10 years. We dated briefly in High school. He is two years older than I am. Anyways, We were always kind of ';touch and go'; meaning we were kind of off and on. We had this strange relationship. He would share things with me like he didnt like kissing anyone but me. Still to this day he says that, and its true because everyone knows he doesnt kiss. So when I was seventeen he got a girl pregnant but the relationship didnt last, me and him had sorta of fell off because I moved to a diffrent town. So to make a long story short, it wasnt long before he was coming to my new house to see me. We never formed a solid ';relationship'; after that because I think we both were a little apprehensive. No matter how many years pass, he always comes back to me. at first I thought it was because he was connected to me sexually but then i dont think that would be enough for a man like him. There are alot of girls that want to be with him but he's sorta guarded. Recently he started dating this new chick and when i asked if he loved her his response was ';she was a logical choice'; he was referring to the time period when I played alot of games and put off seeing him because I was always overwhelmed by what I felt for him..as a young girl I didnt know how to handle those feelings. So one day we were sitting in the car and there
was a shooting star. Everytime I saw ok he's with her im completely moving on, someone tells me tahthey saw him or I see his car somewhere. I asked God for a sign one day as to what to do and then I saw his car parked across the way from my house, he has friends that live there. But he hasnt contacted me. Maybe I should reach out to him because I did play games in the past and he probably feels like what's the use? Please give advice.ATTENTION:Do you think we're meant to be?
ATTENTION: your question was too long and I didn't read it.ATTENTION:Do you think we're meant to be?
Well if you guys really love each other forever and don't fight you guys are meant to be
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